This is an all around ok lube, I would have a hard time seeing anyone hating it, I kinda enjoy trying new brands, and this is easily one of the better so far. It lasts a ok bit of time, it's not overly expensive either. Biggest con seems to be the bottle, as many else have already states not a fan, it spills/leaks when you open and close it running down the side of the bottle. You also have to look at it to see how much you are using, not trying to swim in it (maybe you are??) idk but still I dislike the fact I must stop while in the moment, get up, open it, look, turn off my light than go back to bed. Anything that takes you out of the moment kinda ruins the moment. For this reason I will say while this is a alright option, and you will most likely not be disappointed I would still recommend Valm silicone over it, the quality is better to me, slightly different feel, but I believe the Valm lasts longer. It also has a little pump head on it, you can leave it on the nightstand, stick your hand out, use your thumb to push down the pump head, and catch it in your hand. It helps keep you in the moment with your partner, plus as a pump head you know exactly how much it is applying each time (we prefer 2), it can be done 1 handed. I really like this brand though, it's less leak prone, and honestly the biggest reason is you get twice as much for slightly less. If you have your heart set on ID by all means go with it, you will probably enjoy it, but if you are just looking for something new I would personally recommend Valm since I feel its better, and you get a good bit more :)